The Money Talk…

place of our own logoAs I turn on the television and flip through the channels all I’ve been seeing lately are updates or breaking news topics about our economy and the record breaking job losses.

There are more and more working class families losing their jobs and finding it very hard to make ends meet while trying to keep things together for the sake of their family.

As parents we want to protect our children but what do we do when faced with such an issue and how do we speak to our children about it?

PBS has taken their show, A Place of Our Own and created a series regarding the economy and how to speak to our children about the subject matter.

The schedule for their shows regading the topic of economy is as follows:

Monday, June 22nd, Coping with Economic Insecurities (Emotional)

Tuesday, June 23rd, Financial Tips to Help Families Cope

Wednesday, June 24th, Trimming Your Family’s Food Budget

Thursday, June 25th, Coping with Economic Insecurities (Care Provider)

Friday, June 26th, Week in Review” and “Activities for Children that cost next to nothing

Please click here to check your local listing

Be sure to check out their website,  A Place of Our Own at for more information.

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Crest Pro-Health

crest1Dental hygiene is very important to me. I am always on the lookout for products that actually work and help me maintain clean, healthy teeth. I always make it a point to use toothpaste that offers maximum protection against plaque, cavities and gingivitis.

To date, I have yet to find a product that truly works for me – this is why I decided to use Crest Pro-Health for a week. I wanted to see for myself if this product was indeed true to its word. Crest Pro-Health claims to protect against, cavities, plaque, tooth sensitivity, and helps whiten teeth.

After a week of using the product, I can say with total honesty that Crest Pro-Health does just that. After brushing with Crest Pro-Health, I was left with fresh breath, a brighter smile and no longer have a need to cringe while I brush due to the sensitivity in my teeth.

As a wife and mother, the oral health of my family is on the top of my priority list and I am very satisfied with the results I obtained while using this product.

I recommend this product to anyone looking for fresh breath, and clean healthy teeth.

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¿Cómo se dice? …

How does one raise a bilingual baby? This is a question that I’ve been asking myself as I begin to teach my 6 month old son Spanish. It is so much more than just putting on some Salsa or Merengue for him to listen to and voila – he’s bilingual!

This is something that takes time, patience, and dedication to accomplish.

In fact, I am learning how difficult it can be. I was raised only hearing one language spoken at home and am capable of reading, writing and speaking it well. With this said, I never once thought that I would encounter any challenges while attempting to teach my son.

The biggest issue I have come across so far during this challenge has been my adaption of the Spanglish language over the years. After a while it becomes so intertwined that reversing the process becomes more of a pain in the ass than I anticipated. Nonetheless, I am determined to teach my son about his culture and history.

My game plan is as follows: I have begun to speaking only in Spanish (my husband speaks to him in English), I have a Spanish-English dictionary handy – allowing me to give him the correct word/pronunciation (trying to keep slang words to a minimum), and during our bedtime routine, I read him books in Spanish. I also began putting on cartoons such as Handy Manny, and Dora the Explorer on for him to listen to (whether or not he pays attention to them is another story) and have bought him toys that teach in both English and Spanish.

So with this in my arsenal, I feel somewhat ahead of the game as he doesn’t speak yet.  I will have to continue to brush up on my skills as he is learning and taking as much in as his attention span can handle at his age. I will listen to the advice given to me so far and will continue to accept more as they come.

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It’s time for a family road trip!

roadtrip1Recently, my husband and I decided to take a road trip to Washington, D.C (from NYC) and wanted to make sure that our son (who was 5 months old at the time) was going to be as comfortable as possible and that we would not go insane on a 4 plus hour car ride.

roadtrip2 Here are a few things that I recommend:

  • First things, first, pack patience. A road trip long or short can get the best of anyone
  • Be prepared, fill up the gas tank, and make sure everything you need is in the car ahead of time. If possible, pack the car the night before and just have your outfits laid out
  • Pack extra bottles, diapers, formula, bowls, spoons,baby food and lots of toys
  • Pack extra change of clothing. Parents know how kids love to wear their food and other things on their nice, crisp, clean clothes
  • Music and movies are also good to have on hand. The more things that are used as a distraction device the better
  • Try to leave right as your little one is about to nap. This way, if they sleep for an hour or two they are more than likely not get too worked up as the trip continues
  • Be prepared to make pit stops (of course for bathroom breaks). This in case your little one isn’t a napper, has a temper tantrum, needs to fed or changed or just wants out of the car seat
  • Pack snacks for yourself, this way if you don’t have to stop you can be on your way
  • If your baby is young enough (and within the weight range), bring along the Baby Bjorn. This way they will be out of the car seat/stroller and be able to sight see with the rest of us
  • Depending on your level of paranoia you might decide to bring extra items (just in case or just because). Despite staying in a rather nice hotel in Arlington, we decided to bring along my son’s Pack N’ Play (hotels provide cribs but I just couldn’t bring myself to have him sleep in one) and tub (bad enough my feet touch the tub) along with us.

When taking a family trip, keep in mind, safety first and don’t forget to relax and enjoy.

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Parenting – the first 6 months…

My son is turning 6 months old this week and I have to say that learned many things about this motherhood business. Things you wouldn’t believe unless you’ve been through it yourself making parenthood the hardest yet best job ever had.

So far I’ve learned that…

  • taking time out for YOU is key to a parent’s sanity
  • you will still long sleep (and lots of it!)
  • if help is offered, take it!
  • no matter how tired you are, your baby boy/girl comes first
  • learning to feed them while eating becomes an innate talent (that you’re proud of)
  • you will learn to follow your gut
  • patience is key
  • sanity is necessary
  • you will learn to take things one day at a time
  • as time goes by, it does get easier
  • you will learn a lot of ways to distract them
  • you will continue to stalk them while they sleep
  • you will find out that the old cliché – ‘you don’t know what love is until you have had a baby’ really is true
  • you will be ok with letting them cry themselves to sleep
  • you will learn to value a nice long shower
  • the ponytail and no earring look becomes part of you (especially when they begin to grab at everything)
  • silence will be the best sound (or non-sound) you’ll hear
  • you will consider buying a minivan after realizing that your ‘ever so cute and hip’ sedan has just become too small
  • they will tug at your boob in public
  • they will fall and get back up with or without your help
  • you will once again be able to listen to what is on TV. Instead of watching a picture over a screaming baby
  • you will continue to make a fool of yourself just to entertain them

…and my personal favorite, their smile just melts your heart to pieces

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The controversial V word…

vaccineThe subject of vaccination has been a rather touchy one for many years and continues to be a hot topic of conversation. While pregnant, I did my fair share of research, I Googled, looked at many studies and read parent opinions. After all the inquiry, my husband and I weren’t convinced that not vaccinating our son was the right way to go. To us, the pros drastically outweighed the cons.

Recently, while on a family road trip to D.C., I picked up a copy of USA Today (Tuesday, May 26th, 2009) and read an article regarding whooping cough. The article stated, “Children who aren’t vaccinated against whooping cough are 23 times more likely to develop the disease than children who get all of their shots on time.” The article continued indicating that in 1976 there were 1,000 reported cases and in 2004 that number jumped to 26,000 reported cases (Source: Jason Glanz, Kaiser Permanente Colorado’s Institute for Health Research).

I also read a study conducted in the Pediatric Infectious Diseases Journal in March found that 91 babies under the age of 1 died of whooping cough within a five year span from 1999 to 2004. It seemed that more than half of those babies were under the age of 2 months old, the age at which they get their first series of shots.

To me, it is just absolutely insane! It seems that whooping cough has been making a comeback in recent years as more and more parents are making the decision not to vaccinate their children. In my opinion, refusing to immunize your child not only puts your child at risk but puts those children who are vulnerable as well.

Wasn’t vaccination the reason for the elimination of killer diseases such as polio, diphtheria and rubella?

I respect the fact that everyone has their own opinion and views on certain issues and am sure that parents who decide not to vaccinate their children are thinking that they are doing what is best for their children.

I wholeheartedly believe that as a parent it is my duty to protect my son from things that are within my control (and attempt to protect him against things that aren’t) and if vaccinating him against certain diseases or illnesses is a method of doing so, then so be it.

As parents, we need to do what it takes to shield our children from harm. I feel that we need to make a concerted effort to offer our children a healthy lifestyle and protect them from diseases and illnesses that will do them any damage later in life.

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